Blog Entry #2, Continued (Part 1 is here)(Part 2 is here)(Part 3 is here)
Starbucks, 12824 Ventura Blvd., Studio City, CA 91604
10:41 pm

As the white woman rifles through the Times, I skip town - over to the counter for a soy chai latte.

When I sit back down and begin trying to reconstruct the evening so far, my ears detect a language with an interesting accent. Two young men - one sitting in the other Comfy Chair - are discussing something. It’s a serious discussion – something of substance. I can’t understand what’s being said, but you know the measured and complete sentence construction and response as more than talking about girls or cars or sports. Hmmm. Not necessarily. Two guys can have a very weighty conversation about, say, the NFL draft – whether Brett Favre is being reasonable in insisting on making Randy Moss his new appendage down field. Something like that.

I listen for the name Favre, or Fantasy Hoops or Robinson or Ripken, but hear nothing of the news of sports. What I do hear is a heavy accent of the Middle East. I’ve already admitted a shortcoming in the brain cells that distinguish origins of accent, so I can only attribute this language to Hebrew. Those throat-clearing consonants spoken as vowels are what clued me in. Okay, so that’s it - a couple of earnest young Jewish men.

I glance at the two once more for my own confirmation and the man in the Comfy Chair notices me looking and listening.

“You’re probably noticing our accent?” he says to me. Caught! off guard by his perceptivity and his willingness to approach.

“Yes, is it Hebrew?” I ask, believing I already know.
“No, it is Aramaic - it is the original language of the indigenous Aramaic-speaking descendants of the ancient Assyrian people,” he informs. “I am Assyrian.”

His American English is almost perfect, but there’s still a hint of vocal maneuvering from converting the Aramaic to English. As I have read about Assyria in the Bible, I am vaguely familiar with the designation and so I nod. The young man begins to explain, in a practiced and compelling way, the history of the Assyrian language and the people and history of Assyria as the birthplace of Christianity as a religion.

“There are only about 1 million Assyrians left.” He introduces his friend, Michael, as Assyrian, also, and they both explain to me about how the entire country of Assyria converted – voluntarily – to Christianity after Christ’s death and resurrection and then over time was almost wiped out by Muslim invaders in a series of massacres and atrocities, the last major genocide being in the early 1900’s.

It’s a very interesting conversation to me and we continue for a while. But I was not getting any writing done at the time. These two young men were very knowledgeable, friendly, and articulate, so it was very stimulating to talk to them. I found out that Jozef, the more talkative of the two, has been in local community service and politics. I can imagine that he will go far in the political service of his choosing.

“I hate the Bible!”

Well, if that’s not a show-stopper, I don’t know what is! The white woman has had enough of being ignored and of having to listen to talk of Christianity, its history, and of faith.

I’m determined to be a spectator at this point – I keep my mouth shut. But Jozef jumps right in, non-confrontational, and engages that woman with discourse that had her asking questions and calming down again, legs up and folded underneath her and turned fully toward Jozef in the other Comfy Chair. She hasn’t read the Bible. But she hates it. Jozef listened patiently and then artfully led her into a discussion that lasted nearly fifteen minutes.

I wouldn’t have given her and me two minutes. While they talked, I listened to Michael’s testimony of trouble resolving in his returning to his ancestral faith in a very strong and convincing way. I liked him, too. Very sincere.

Okay, it was getting late and Gilbert the Barista came over to us to let us know we had to vacate. By this time I had unplugged, shut down, and packed up my laptop so I was ready to leave. Jozef gave me his card. Two cards on the night. Pretty good.

What an evening! From the girls and boys, to Gilbert, to the women, to the men, I had taken quite a journey - equipped with coffee and chai purveyed by Starbucks. It had driven my mind around the track a few laps, through hairpin turns of opinion and perception until I came to the finish – a ride worthy (at least to me) of a four-parter.

You may have surmised that there’s no way I could write all of this there at the coffeehouse. True. In fact, usually I will write the gist - and the bulk - of the story at the coffeehouse and then finish it up at home. As they say – most of writing’s in the editing and so mine is, too. Even at that, I continually find typos and overlooked wrong words – a product of a little dyslexia, I admit.

But finishing this at home provides me with a proper ending to this night.

It turns out my block was still without power and was completely darkened. Only 100 feet away across the street were homes and apartments with Jay Leno on, late-night popcorn popping, and couples dancing in the dark anyway, the only light coming from the glowing lights of electronics.

I pull into the night-quiet of the parking carports and shut off my lights, then my engine. As I step out into the open air on my way to my apartment door, I look up. The moon is a sliver way off to the west, following the earlier sun and there are stars. Stars! A rare thing to experience as a resident of the Los Angeles electric grid.

There is a warm breeze and it rustles through the palm fronds that tower above the complex, leaning toward the ocean over the Hollywood hills. It’s all I can hear. No hum and rumble of air conditioning; no televisions; no cars – either everyone’s staying home or staying away elsewhere.

I whisper, “Thank you, God” as I stand there on the open asphalt, looking up and around, that relative silence carrying me across the peppered sky with the brush of breeze across my face. It washes me, clears my mind and I stand there a long time.

Being powerless can be a beautiful thing.

I AM the CoffeeHouse Blogger. Hear me type!

ABOUT THIS COFFEE SHOP:
Okay, this coffeehouse gets two thumbs up if, for nothing else, the TWO sets of Comfy Chairs. Not only does this soothe me to see, but it also indicates this Starbucks’ willingness to accommodate people who might sit, sip, and savor for a while.

For a Starbucks, this is a long, skinny coffeehouse layout, with parking out back. There were meters on the boulevard, too, and open spots were plentiful. You could even take a chance and park at the supermarket. It’s located on a busy stretch of Ventura Boulevard that is on a curve, next to a big Petco, and with a supermarket across the way. Not a hub of pedestrian traffic at all. That makes it a determined destination for most who go there, in my opinion, which can be a good thing.

The coffee was standard, but fresh, and I’m sure it was because of Gilbert’s attentiveness. When you ask for Gilbert, don’t mention what he told me, even though he made it public. But do ask him to tell you a joke and we’ll be able to assess his progress from that.

It’s an eclectic crowd, as you can tell, with many internationals that turned out to be friendly and normal. Even the DC was really okay.

Go to this Starbucks if you want to be off the beaten path while still being on the beaten path.

Starbucks, 12824 Ventura Blvd., Studio City, CA 91604

Dear Members of the Armed Services,

We share your frustration with the MSM’s portrayal of both the fight and the fighters for our freedom there in the Middle East - Iraq and Afghanistan. If we could only organize concentrated, consolidated marches or other visible signs of support for you, I would be there.

I try to read as many books as I can like No True Glory and read as many articles (Michael Yon) as I have time to be up-to-speed with what you are going through over there. I tell you, if I were younger, I would join you! Thank God for Michelle Malkin and so many others who are champions for you back here at home.

As it is, I pray with my church and on my own for your safety and commend you to our loving Father as often as I can. When I was in the airport a couple of years ago, I had the waitress bring the check over to me for me to pay for a group of about 7 soldiers on their way over there. It’s nothing, though. I wish so much to do more, and I will as I’m able.

And I will defend your valor, honor, and courage to anyone who speaks a word against you and what you are doing for us.

God Bless you and your family in the highest way,

Love,

the Coffeehouse Blogger

Stolen from Michelle Malkin’s website:

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Blog Entry #2, Continued (Part 1 is here)(Part 2 is here)
Starbucks, 12824 Ventura Blvd., Studio City, CA 91604
10:00 pm

As I’m writing down my faulty thoughts and recollections of my conversation with Ava, surrounded by power outages all over “the Valley” here, the rabid white woman leans toward me and addresses me.

Oh. No.

But, in the time that the rabid white woman has been left with herself after Ava got up from the Comfy Chair next to her, the rabid woman’s attention has wandered into her mind’s kitchen, poured herself another cup, and has now calmed down a bit. So she turns to me and asks me if I would like a magazine on art auctions that she is not going to read. It’s got nice pictures of art and stuff, she explains, flipping through the pages to show me. That’s a nice gesture. I’m grateful that she is not full-time rabid.

Thanks, but no, I say to her and so she continues after she pauses to judge my answer.

“I’m an actress,” she says. “I’m emotional, okay? I need my emotions. My emotions are required as part of my business, to be emotional, you know?” I am able to track that she’s referring to/explaining her interaction with the black woman.

I think I will not encourage her in a discussion of whether being run by your emotions is necessary or even advisable out in the real world. Even though she is coherent and conversational, and I could easily engage her in the particulars of the use of emotions and “sense memory” as utilized in the Strasberg’s Method acting technique, I refrain.

When I first arrived in Los Angeles from the deep Midwest, in the first three months, in this order, I: got signed with a talent manager as an actor; got put into one of Hollywood’s top acting schools; landed a featured role in an independent feature film; and got a call from Danny DeVito himself. Bet you’d like to know more about this, but you’ll have to wait for that blog entry…

Gilbert the barista comes over to check on me and see if I got plugged in okay and asks if I want a refill. I don’t and he says that it’s been unusually busy tonight because of the power outages.

The woman then apologizes to Gilbert about not giving up her seat to me earlier, when Gilbert actually took me over to the Comfy Chairs and asked the white woman if she would mind giving up her seat so I could have access to the power outlet. I wouldn’t have any part of that, as nice as it was for Gilbert to ask for me, and besides, the white woman hedged at that. She now apologizes to Gilbert that she was deeply involved in her conversation with the black woman. She understands now, what Gilbert’s request for the chair was about.

After Gilbert goes back behind the counter, the rabid woman who is not rabid anymore continues to talk to me and makes a joke. It’s actually funny and I laugh and she is surprised at herself, saying that she’s not very often funny or witty. I can believe that. I choose to compliment her on her being witty, though.

“But the people at this Starbucks are very funny,” she says.
“You mean the people who come in here?” I ask.
“No, the staff here”.
“Gilbert?” I ask. “Is he funny?”
“No, not Gilbert”.
“Not Gilbert?” I ask.
“No, the others.”

I really get it that he’s doing well and I tell him how impressed I am with him and his answering that question. He says to me that he really appreciates me asking. He’s really kind of stunned that someone – a stranger, even – would ask him something like that and asks why I would ask him that. I tell him the truth; that I don’t know why; I was just moved to ask him that question. I felt somehow he needed to be asked that. Is that the Holy Spirit working through us? I believe so. I believe I’ve experienced Him working this way at other times. Is this a common thing? What’s your experience with this?

NOTE: Someday someone’s going to actually offer an answer to the questions I ask in these posts. I look forward to that. END NOTE.

Gilbert smiles broadly. That he’s come through something like that shows in his kindness and friendliness. Maybe it’s still too soon for him to be funny, though. I could understand that.

The white woman looks through a newspaper. I’m hoping there’s nothing in there that will set her off so I can get some writing done, but since it’s the Los Angeles Times, I’m not hopeful.

I AM the CoffeeHouse Blogger. Hear me type!

Continued in Part 4:
Coffeehouse discussions in the ancient Assyrian language; Being powerless can be a beautiful thing.

About This CoffeeHouse at the end of Part 4

Blog Entry #2, Continued (Part 1 is here)
Starbucks, 12824 Ventura Blvd., Studio City, CA 91604
9:12 pm

Giggly girls speaking in tongues and I can no longer write coherently.

So I move to a different table up near the two - count ‘em, TWO sets of overstuffed chairs that give me comfort just to see. I don’t usually sit in them anymore; I just like to see them there. Because they are comfy, I am comforted - something like that.

A white woman and a black woman are sitting in one set of the comfy chairs discussing Don Imus. If I were a reporter or a journalist, this might look like a newsworthy trinket wrapped up and bow-tied. But instead, I look at my own usage of the terms “white” and “black” and I’m irritated I have to use those terms at all.

What could be more perpetually polarizing than using opposite terms of color to describe ourselves - or more pointedly, to describe others? I’m not white, and my friend Johnny is not black. While he a very dark-skinned person, he is not black. If he were black, that would be a very curious thing. Even someone designated as an “albino” is not white, in any literal or even empirical sense. I want to use what a young boy named Brendan taught me to use if designation of racial, ethnic, or cultural distinction is necessary - “light-skinned” or “dark-skinned”. Or usually I prefer the designation of Caucasian (for myself), Asian, or … Here’s another problem, though: are African Americans really such if they are not directly from Africa? It seems not, in a literal sense, and yet I realize we cannot go back to the 19th century term Negroid, and Caucasoid. The Oxford Dictionary cautions against using those designations, so that’s out. If “African American” is a valid term, then I would be a European American, but we don’t use that designation, do we? The dark-skinned people with ancestral origins in Africa that I know prefer the term “black,” so I’m afraid we may be stuck with these very inadequate and divisive terms. Please, within these considerations, what do we do about this?

Now, here’s something - the white woman is rabid about the Don Imus thing. She has apparently accosted the black woman, a stranger, by claiming that, “You’re African American, so let me ask you…” Her voice rises, and I notice Gilbert the barista keeping an eye on her. The white woman is cussing up a storm, F—- this and S— to that. She wears black-rimmed glasses and carries with her a stack of magazines and writings and looks as though she’s used to claiming space here at this Starbucks. Could she be the DC here? I try not to make eye contact with her for fear of her latching onto me in one-sided conversation like many DC’s seem to do, but my fascination with the black woman and her reaction to the rabid woman keeps my eyes climbing over my laptop screen.

NOTE: Later the black woman explains to me that she told the white woman that she was NOT African American and that she is Black, and doesn’t allow others to call her African American when she is not. END NOTE.

Here’s, essentially, what the black woman says to the white woman’s rage against Imus and those she lumps with him - she says, “I have life to live, I’ve got work to do. I don’t have time to spend on insignificant stuff like that.” I’m pleasantly floored. She notices my eyes pop and smiles at me, and I smile back. I like her.

As I’m writing all this up, their discussion goes back and forth between the rabid woman’s incredulity with the black woman not agreeing with her. But the black woman is unfazed; is actually enjoying the debate, I think, and I like her even more. Plus, she has a nice voice.

Finally, the black woman has had enough and gets up to go, first coming over to me to talk, because I’m smiling at her. We share a compatriot’s grin, and she explains that she’s from Tennessee. She tells me about her mother and how, when she came home in tears one day after her first encounter with cruel prejudice in someone calling her a Nigg-, her mother’s response was to ask her if she was one. She replied ‘No‘ and so her mother simply said to get on with her life.

“Jesse and Al aren’t always going to be there when there’s an offense because they aren’t accessible to your average person. And your character is built by how you respond when there is no Jesse or Al”, she says to me.

I tell her about all of my summers spent in Memphis and my experience around my relatives which are on the opposite side of her experience. More blog entries…

Then, something happens that gives me a real chuckle and a lift. Three people enter the coffeehouse that the black woman recognizes. The man is Spanish-speaking, and he is with his wife and her friend. They all say their hellos and the two women go to order. The man and the black woman begin mentioning old times. It’s apparent they have not seen each other in a long time. In an affectionately moving gesture, the man opens his coat and rubs his protruding belly. The black woman responds by taking her hat off to elicit his surprise at her very close-cropped hair, as testament to the time and changes that have passed through their lives. As I sit here, I am thankful for this joyful and truthful honesty.

Ava is her name, as I finally find out after the man goes to order. She is a singer and composer. She writes children’s music. How nice! She uses music to insert English lessons in songs for young students. Her friend is in the same business, apparently, but produces his work in Spanish. Ava says that the man also translates Ava’s songs into Spanish for her. Ava is very outgoing and friendly. She explains that out of nine brothers and sisters, all but one have advanced degrees. She believes in living through example and being a testament to one’s ideologies, rather than spouting them off. And here I am, spouting off …

She asks me what column I’m writing for and I tell her, playing as though this blog is established, credited, something of substance. Well, I’m thinking in future tense, here, okay? Ava has a column in an LA jazz magazine, and she hands me her card. I have one of my freshly minted, Avery-perforated CoffeeHouseBlog cards and I hand it to her before she leaves to go sit with her friends. Would one of you reading this remind me to keep in touch with Ava? I know how leaky my mind is.

It’s interesting (at least to me!). Writing this, I’m witnessing first hand how a journalist must work around remembrance of details of conversations and observations. I am naturally embellishing and sometimes creating certain aspects of what I’m writing about. Is that ethical? I don’t know, but that’s how it’s working for me as I try to keep up with the input, lagging behind and having to fill in the blanks of my perceptions, hearing, and memory. I hope Ava forgives me for my inadequate retelling of the encounter. For that matter, I hope the rabid woman forgives me, too. More on that…

It’s a lively night, this night without power. The rabid woman now turns her attention toward me…

I AM the CoffeeHouse Blogger. Hear me type!

Continued in Part 3:
The Rabid Woman; Coffeehouse discussions in the ancient Assyrian language; Gilbert answers a very personal question.

About This CoffeeHouse at the end of Part 4

Blog Entry #3
Starbucks, Brentwood Village, California
6:34 pm

I don’t know, I got stung by a beauty bee yesterday evening. I went to get my mail from the apartment complex mailbox which is on the edge of a nice courtyard near the pool and there right in front of me was a perfectly opened and formed rose.

I usually stop to smell roses - especially the yellow-hued ones because the roses in the yellow and orange tints often are very fragrant. Not the white ones. I’ve never found a white rose that had any fragrance. Have you? If you have, let me know which one.

I used to be a photographer for Hallmark Cards in Kansas City as one of their main contract photographers. One of my favorite things to do while wandering the endless rows of studio spaces in the photo building, was to stop at the end of the building where all of the flower arrangements were shot. There was an Italian man, I think his name was Mario, who had been there a long time and I loved to watch what he did. He had these beautiful stucco walls built for him and painted and aged so that when they ended up on cards, they could have been shot in Merano, Italy - City of Flowers. He seemed like he absolutely loved his job. The photos he designed and took were incredible, creating fingers of late afternoon light with filtered banks of lights off in the corner of the room flooding across his wall. If you’re ever in Kansas City, Missouri (no one I know goes to Kansas City, Kansas!), stop in at Hallmark and take a tour. It is one of the best places I have ever worked. I could go on and on but that’s another post.

This is the rose that was in the courtyard. Click on it to see a bigger version in a new window. It was dusk, the light was almost gone and I had to take it quick. But I don’t like straight camera flash - too harsh for me - so I shot at about 1/30 of second at a wide aperture and used a combination of flash and ambient light (camera flash set to SLOW - try it). I might have looked a bit strange out there taking about 30 photos of the same thing but I had to keep refocusing because the light was low. That, and the fact that I was using a piece of toilet paper over the flash element to dim it and soften it. I then used Adobe Photoshop to enhance it and bring out the attributes in the rose that I saw with my eyes. I have been using Photoshop for 15 years, so I kind of know what I’m doing with it and probably make it look easy. Email me if you need a tip!

I hope you enjoy looking at this photo as much as I do! If you want to use it, please ask me first. It’s not polite to use other people’s photos for your own website without asking. Unless it’s in the Public Domain. Besides, as would happen to me, the great god of Copyright will zap you if you rely on any kind of copyright protection for your own work. Thanks!

I will be posting more photos from time to time and eventually, Videos! So check back often and tell your friends! Salut!

I AM the CoffeeHouse Blogger. Hear me type!

ABOUT THIS COFFEE SHOP:
For being in the middle of Brentwood Village (remember O.J. lived in Brentwood?) this is one of the smaller, but nicer Starbucks. AND, it’s got two comfy chairs even though it’s small. There’s hoity toity people, but they tend to only sit outside where they can be seen. Inside, there’s a counter along the window that you can sit at with your laptop and watch people walk by. And watch the luxury vehicles roll past.

But wait, I’ll take you to a Starbuck’s in Beverly Hills at some point and we’ll have some REAL fun, there.

I go to this Starbucks on a regular basis because I have a computer tutoring client in Brentwood Village - Jack, 92! (another post!) - and because my friend Brent and I stop here before Bible Study sometimes. OOPS! Don’t tell his wife! HAHA!

The place is usually clean and I had a sandwich here tonight. Tuna fish. I always want one but they are always dry. They should make ‘em like I make ‘em… The music is not too loud and this is one of the rare Starbucks without a local Designated Character. There are some DC’s that wander past outside, but not inside. If you know of one there, let me know. I’ll find out about some of the baristas there and ask them revealing personal questions. I have no shame - Gringo sin vergüenza!

No, this is just a solid, consistently good Starbucks. Go there or be square!

Starbucks Coffee Company
11700 Barrington Court, Brentwood Village, California 90049

Blog Entry #2
Starbucks, 12824 Ventura Blvd., Studio City, CA 91604
8:43 pm

“No running in the Pool Area!” Gilbert the barista calls out to the young woman running toward me at the back of this Starbucks, her two girlfriends walking, giggling behind her. I ask them if they’re here because of the power outage. They say no, but that apparently it’s out in places all over the city after the wind storm.

I was thinking about the 64,999 other people who are without power along with me here in the San Fernando Valley. The “Valley”, for those not familiar with Los Angeles is the large metropolitan area inland and over the “hill” from Hollywood and the ocean. It contains Beautiful Downtown Burbank, the place that Johnny Carson used to make fun of on his show. I always remember his Art Fern character, describing with a freeway chart of LA that looked like spaghetti. He used that to show how to get to his store.

“You take the 10 to the 405, take the 405 to the 101, take the 101 to the 134, if you miss the 134, take the 170 to the 5, double back and take the Slausen Cutoff…” and on and on. My family and I would sit together in front of our black and white television those summer nights, when I got to stay up a little later as a young boy, to watch Johnny Carson and laugh, laugh, laugh. If you’re too young to remember Johnny’s shows, you can catch them on those Best Of DVD’s available on the web.

Johnny’s rendering of Hollywood, Los Angeles, and the whole television and movie world was how we all viewed this place where I now live – it’s stayed with me all these years. It seemed like such a surreal world watching and hearing about it on Carson’s show, us living back in the Midwest. Funny thing is, the reality turns out to be no different now that I’m here living in the middle of it all. I will tell of how I came to end up in Los Angeles in another post. That’s a story, too…

I’m wondering how old they are, the three girls. They gather at the table next to me in the back of the coffeehouse. Only one sits. The others have to stand, they are so distracted by their own brainwaves and hormones. I’m trying to pay attention to their conversations because I think there may be something for this blog in the broken noodles of their speech. At the same time, I try not to listen. I get the sense that if I listen to them too long it will make me scattered, mushy, and I have an underlying fearfulness for my masculinity.

Then, three guys walk in through the front door and I immediately get the idea they know these girls. No indication, I just feel it. I have no idea how these rough guys could be associated with the giggling girls. It’s a weird feeling, like there could be a showdown or something. But they don’t look toward the back where we’re at, they just glide in, hands in pockets, cool.

All three have shaved heads and a couple of them have baggy pants. I think, “Gang members.”

NOTE: Here is an admission of a level of ignorance of other cultures and ethnicities, along with being purposefully out of touch with the fads and affectations of teen and early twenties-types. Can only be fixed by extended contact. Must find opportunities for that to happen. END NOTE.

Then I hear whispers from the girls behind me. I look. The girls’ attention is on the guys and so I look back to the guys and they’re coming straight back. Aha! But these guys have fooled me. They act very cordial and respectful – not at all like gang members. One of them speaks to one of the girls in a foreign language and me being fairly ignorant of many other accents, I can only assume that it’s an eastern European accent. She answers him back in English, though, which is interesting – he speaks to her in a foreign language and she understands perfectly well but responds in English. Help me understand that one. But these guys seem actually quite nice!

They are right next to me and one of the guys says something about the girl who seems to be the center of attention. She is the tallest and has the longest hair – the one who was running back here (Alpha Female?). The guy asks about her birthday, I think. She says, “I’m twenty today.” It’s her birthday! Happy Birthday!

And I’m sitting here, a party to their conversation. As a guy, though, it bends the mind, what these young women talk about. I can’t track it. Girl Stuff. Now they’re talking about the guys. All sorts of stuff. It’s a world I used to be privy to, when I bought all the feminist propaganda and was trying to ingratiate myself with women. Do you remember that? Some of us guys bought all that “being friends with girls” stuff; put down the other guys stuff. All this was always, either consciously or not, with the singular goal of gaining a certain favor from these female “friends”. When Harry Met Sally, with no exceptions. It’s true.

I wonder for a moment what tone this party of young people would have if we all had been without power, lights, hot showers, etc. for going on two months instead of five hours. Would there be massive depression? Where would the young people be on a night like this? Would the girls just stay home and hide their matted and smelly hair? What would those guys look like with full heads of hair? What would your life be like if due to some major calamity – say a nuclear bomb that takes out all electricity production - large areas of the earth were without power? Can you imagine continuing on with your life with joy and enthusiasm? What would you do to survive? If sometime later today your life and lifestyle ceased to be, as you knew it, could you quickly adjust to a totally new reality that’s extremely difficult - total survivor mode - and lacking most of the pleasures of materialism you now know? Seriously, God forbid! What would it take, if anything, for you to turn to God or Jesus or another “higher power” if you don’t already? Interesting thought, hey? Consider it for a moment.

Soon, the guys leave and when I ask, Suzy (her friend spells her name out for me) says that the guys know her boyfriend. I get it. Then I understand that she was running toward the back of the store because she had seen them out on the street.

Has this blog entry made your mind fuzzy, or made you antsy or feel disjointed? That’s what I feel in this coffeehouse tonight with all this going on.

More girls come in and congregate. I have to switch tables.

I AM the CoffeeHouse Blogger. Hear me type!

Continued in Part 2:
One Black, one White woman debate the Don Imus debacle; Coffeehouse discussions in the ancient Assyrian language; Gilbert answers a very personal question.

About This Store at the end of Part 2

Hi!

As I’ve been scrambling to recover from the stiff, I have been remiss in putting up new posts. But count ‘em, I have three! (3) new posts almost ready. They will be available starting tonight sometime. Posts with the following titles:

Powerless In The Film Capitol of the World (posted!)

I Got Stiffed, part 2

My Two Greatest Joys, part 1

Serial Killers I Have Known

So check back real soon! And there will be lots more content, much concerning… Coffee!

Salut!

Blog Entry #1
Starbucks Coffee, Ventura Blvd., Studio City, CA
9:58 pm

Yeah, today I got stiffed. Are you a person who regularly has people renege on an agreement or promise?

This is the inaugural installment of this blog, CoffeeHouseBlog.com and man-oh-man, could I use a new beginning today. Now, I’m not a person like that – who regularly has people screw him (or thinks people screw him) - but today I allowed myself a few moments of feeling like God has it in for me. Of course, this also comes on a day I have a bible study in the evening that has now convicted me of my indulgence. And I am repentant. That’s where I’ve just come from and coincidentally, what we covered tonight - repentance.

BTW (By The Way, for you who are acronymically-challenged), in the spirit of transparency, I want to just get it out of the way and up front that I am unashamedly a beginning follower of Jesus Christ, believe in the Bible, and will refer to my faith as often as I need to in order to give an honest picture of my life and experience. I’m also still a human bean, won’t sugar-coat anything, and recognize, as a human bean, that I am subject to all the foibles anyone else is… But be forewarned, there will be good with the bad! And regardless of anyone’s religion or faith or non-belief, all are warmly welcomed here and I hope to make a place for all.

So, here it is – I have a client for whom I was designing a website and last week on the phone they had promised to send out a check to me for $635.00 as a second installment on their website. I sent an email on Friday making note of the absence of their check in my little post office box. When I didn’t receive a reply from them by this weekend, I knew that wasn’t a good sign. Especially since, in all truth, I had advance warning of the possibility for the stiff. Am I to blame if I chose to believe that what I was told would happen, wouldn’t happen?

Question: How many times in my life was I given good advice or information that I essentially refused to believe? Answer: Too many. Looking back, I’m amazed at how many times well-meaning friends were actually right – if sometimes only partially right.

Take marriages. I’m a walking cliché of the guy who is told, “Run. Run for your life!” and doesn’t. When I told one of my business acquaintances about the burnt offering I found my second wife-to-be sitting in front of on the sidewalk by our garage, that’s what he said. I said, “Oh, no, she was just …” Fill in the blank, you people who have done the same – making excuses to allow yourself to keep rolling down the tracks of your mind’s or passion’s desire. Casey Jones, look out! Read more »

We’re just getting our order in, the milk is steaming, and I can smell the beans roasting. Check out the About This Site for background information, what to expect, and how you can contribute. Salut!